Is it finally time to say the three magic words ?
Love isn ’t always easy to find . You meet someone you like . You go out on a few dates . And with each passing day, you start to feel more intrigued . You notice how your heart starts beating faster every time you hear their name. You feel the excitement rush through your body every time you plan to meet them.
You feel like your heart might explode the first time you get to touch them. And this is exactly where things start to get confusing. You start to wonder whether all these emotions you ’ re feeling right now are the result of true love - the kind that ’s really here to stay or if they ’ re just part of the initial excitement that comes with every new relationship in life - the kind that is bound to fade away with time .
So it ’s no wonder that people remain so scared of telling their partner that they love them for the very first time . They remain scared because they ’re confused- confused about whether this really is love , confused about whether the other person feels the same way, and confused about whether the time is right . If you want a solution to all this confusion, if you want to stop waiting just to tell your partner that you love them, and if you hope to ensure that the time really is right , then look out for these 3 signs in your relationship:
You ’ve been with each other long enough to know that your partner is not going to get scared away
One of the biggest reasons why we feel so confused about letting someone know that we’ re in love with them is the stress that comes with thinking that your partner might feel overwhelmed . They might think that it ’s too soon to hear that . And they might start backing off from the entire relationship . While this concern is completely valid , there comes a point in every relationship where you start to realize that you ’ve actually been through a lot together.
You start to feel a certain comfort in knowing that no matter what the situations is, the person standing in front of you isn ’t going anywhere. You know that they understand you enough to not be scared of anything you tell them. And even if they don ’t reciprocate with an ‘I love you ’, you feel a certain surety that at some point or another , they will start to feel the same way . They will allow themselves to love you back . And if you have happened to reach that feeling before them, there’s no point in hiding it .
You feel completely sure that you ’ re in love with them
One mistake all people tend to make in a relationship is to overthink about everything they’ re feeling . The minute you feel like you ’re falling in love with someone , you start to remember all the previous relationships you had or the ‘love ’ you felt for those partners at the time . And you start giving yourself a hard time by thinking about how immature and pointless all of it seems in the present. You start to believe that maybe this new relationship might end up the exact same way.
Maybe this might start feeling like a temporary mistake a few years down the line . And maybe this love isn ’ t the one that can last a lifetime . But the truth is you don ’t need to ensure that this person is the one you will spend your entire life with in order to ensure that you actually love them. And even if this does end up feeling like a mistake in the future , it will be a mistake that you can learn from, a mistake that will make you wiser and stronger , and a mistake that will take you closer to what you truly want . So stop with the overthinking . Let your emotions run free. And if you feel like you truly love this person , just let them know .
You have already made a promise to yourself to remain patient when things get tough
Because they always do . No matter how long you ’ve been together, no matter how much you love the person standing in front of you and no matter how badly you want this relationship to work out, things will eventually get difficult . You will have days where you can ’t even seem to understand a word they say , days where the only time you communicate is when you ’re fighting, days where you just can ’t seem to recall why you entered this relationship in the first place . But that ’s alright.
It’ s all a part of life and a part of every relationship in the world . And if you are one of the wise people who have accepted this fact , then you don ’t need to remain confused. You don ’t need to keep making this decision any harder. You don ’t need to wait to tell them you love them. Because you are prepared to face every situation that comes with this declaration- the good and the bad!
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